"You need to grieve". I heard that phrase more than a few times. The problem was, I didn't know how how to grieve. I cried all the time, did that count? How do you grieve for something that you never had? Something that doesn't exist? In recent months I've realized that maybe grieving isn't something … Continue reading How to Grieve
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It’s (not) personal
Personal. I’m taking it personally. Which is silly. I know it’s not personal. It’s not like this is happening for any reason. It just is. So why does it feels so personal? I feel like I'm being attacked, called out, specifically chosen to go through this. And that makes me angry. The only one I … Continue reading It’s (not) personal
Voice in Ramah 